I've been decreasing my activity level in many support groups and being a "lurker". I recently found a place called MD Junction. Here's part of the description from their home page:
MDJunction is a Health related social network,They allow you to rate doctors, have forums and support groups for various diseases.
a center for Online Support Groups.
This community is about people helping people,
sharing personal experiences and knowledge, just as it
used to be in the old days.
So, here is a link to MDJunction as well as a link to their Fibromyalgia support group. Also, check out their "Find a Doc" section if you are doctor hunting.